thinking
back now, i’ve been dealing with emotional eating for almost ten years.
life transitions like moving, my parent’s divorce (hi mom and dad, this is not me blaming you for anything, it’s just something i’ve dealt with), going off to college, getting a job, and yes, even getting married (love you, sweetie) have impacted my thoughts toward food (or lack thereof).
we
fill the void whenever we’re depressed, bored, lonely, angry, anxious,
frustrated or stressed. we eat just because we can, not necessarily
because we need to.
experts estimate that 75% of overeating is caused by emotions.
lol, i’m a statistic.
according to theotherjournal.com, “emotional eating is a very distressing and common problem in America. it affects far more Americans than the more extensively researched eating disorders of anorexia and bulimia.
because of the social stigma Americans attach to being overweight and
the highly-prized super-thin body, many are ashamed of their emotional
eating behaviors and keep them secret. others have engaged in such
behaviors for so long that it begins to feel normal.”
my erratic eating habits DID feel normal. now, it takes everything i have to NOT succumb to to the pangs.
here are a few tips that have helped me, courtesy of mayoclinic.com:
learn to recognize true hunger. is
your hunger physical or emotional? if you ate just a few hours ago and
don't have a rumbling stomach, you're probably not really hungry. give
the craving a few minutes to pass.
know your triggers.
for the next several days, write down what you eat, how much you eat,
when you eat, how you're feeling when you eat and how hungry you are.
over time, you may see patterns emerge that reveal negative eating
patterns and triggers to avoid.
look elsewhere for comfort.
instead of unwrapping a candy bar, take a walk, treat yourself to a
movie, listen to music, read or call a friend. if you think that stress
relating to a particular event is nudging you toward the refrigerator,
try talking to someone about it to distract yourself. plan enjoyable
events for yourself.
don't keep unhealthy foods around. avoid
having an abundance of high-calorie comfort foods in the house. if you
feel hungry or blue, postpone the shopping trip for a few hours so that
these feelings don't influence your decisions at the store.
snack healthy.
if you feel the urge to eat between meals, choose a low-fat,
low-calorie food, such as fresh fruit, vegetables with fat-free dip or
unbuttered popcorn. or test low-fat, lower calorie versions of your
favorite foods to see if they satisfy your craving.
eat a balanced diet.
if you're not getting enough calories to meet your energy needs, you
may be more likely to give in to emotional eating. try to eat at fairly
regular times and don't skip breakfast. include foods from the basic
groups in your meals. emphasize whole grains, vegetables and fruits, as
well as low-fat dairy products and lean protein sources. when you fill
up on the basics, you're more likely to feel fuller, longer.
exercise regularly and get adequate rest. your mood is more manageable and your body can more effectively fight stress when it's fit and well rested.
innerself.com has a great chart discerning the difference between emotional and physical hunger.
and here’s a really great quiz via psychologytoday.com that assesses your eating habits. i was pleasantly surprised about my results:
i wonder what it would have been a month ago?
what
should you take from this? re-evaluate your eating habits; you may be
surprised what you find. you could be one of the many swept up in this
eating epidemic.
Very good post. And very brave of you to admit you have a problem, which is the first step to recovery. I'm sure this will help many people, thanks! Good luck in your struggles.
I had a horrible time with emotional eating...that's mostly how I gained all the weight when I did. HOWEVER, when I started trying to cut weight it was an extremely emotional time in my life so anytime I realized that I wanted to pig out on something I would drink water...and if I needed something sweet I would drink Crystal Light. And if the snacking just had to be...I got these Slim Fast (I think they're called Caramel Crunch-something like that) bars and they would fill the void. Good luck! Like I said, it's hard at first but once you get on board and you start to realize your errors it gets easy. Keep on updating us...I know this helped me too...the having someone to tell it to part. :)
You're sure as hell not alone. *looks in the mirror* Yep.
I know this post was a while back, but it's new to me :)
I think binge eating, bulimia and anorexia are interrelated. It's a cycle of eating and starving/ purging. I'm glad to say that *was* the case for me :)
don't keep unhealthy foods around - so true. It's like some otherworldly creature takes over me, eating whatever is around.
PS Thanks for the add! I enjoy reading your entries, both on your blog and those on Healthkicker!
@lifeofmi_mi - I'm glad you stopped by! It really means a lot that people read some of my older posts ...
... and I'm SO GLAD that *was* the case for you—it's a testament to your strength and character that you were able to grow away from that experience.
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Very good post. And very brave of you to admit you have a problem, which is the first step to recovery. I'm sure this will help many people, thanks! Good luck in your struggles.
I had a horrible time with emotional eating...that's mostly how I gained all the weight when I did. HOWEVER, when I started trying to cut weight it was an extremely emotional time in my life so anytime I realized that I wanted to pig out on something I would drink water...and if I needed something sweet I would drink Crystal Light. And if the snacking just had to be...I got these Slim Fast (I think they're called Caramel Crunch-something like that) bars and they would fill the void. Good luck! Like I said, it's hard at first but once you get on board and you start to realize your errors it gets easy. Keep on updating us...I know this helped me too...the having someone to tell it to part. :)
You're sure as hell not alone. *looks in the mirror* Yep.
I know this post was a while back, but it's new to me :)
I think binge eating, bulimia and anorexia are interrelated. It's a cycle of eating and starving/ purging. I'm glad to say that *was* the case for me :)
don't keep unhealthy foods around - so true. It's like some otherworldly creature takes over me, eating whatever is around.
PS Thanks for the add! I enjoy reading your entries, both on your blog and those on Healthkicker!
@lifeofmi_mi - I'm glad you stopped by! It really means a lot that people read some of my older posts ...
... and I'm SO GLAD that *was* the case for you—it's a testament to your strength and character that you were able to grow away from that experience.