Month: June 2008

  • totally gay … er, bogus.

    i was flipping through usatoday when i came across this:

    If your gaydar’s on the fritz, the Los Angeles Times lays out 
    some possible “sexual orientation correlates.”  We’re talking about
    clues to the biological roots of homosexuality, not stereotypical
    characteristics, such as a love for all things Judy Garland. For men,
    try counting the number of older brothers they have (the more they
    have, the greater the chance they’re gay, which might be related to
    “anti-boy” antibodies in their mother’s womb, research suggests). For
    men and women, look at which hand they write with (straight men and
    women are more likely to be right-handed,
    which could be related to
    testosterone exposure in the womb).


    this is what scientists are getting paid for nowadays?! (and for that matter, this is what journalists are getting paid to write?)

    i find it ridiculous to publish research that is borderline absurd. for example, the LAT story discusses penis size in gay vs. straight men. apparently, gay men will have a longer/wider penis when compared to a straight men. they go into a scientific analysis, finishing it off with how the GOT the data.

    apparently, the researcher just asked for the men to measure themselves at home. they even point out the obvious: men may have exaggerated the results, to make themselves sound *ahem* more than they are.

    it just seems that a lot of the research was reaching at overly-flamboyant straws. i’m sure that people are looking for “a way to explain away the gay”, but it’s not that simple.

    yes, i believe that people don’t choose to be gay. i think that it’s something they are born with, and destined to be. but i don’t think that half-assed results that only “explain” why/how of a portion of the gay population is correct.

    i am proud to be friends with quite a few members of the LGBT community. in fact, my uncle and his partner have been together for 20 years, and exemplify what a relationship should be, regardless of orientation. they are one of the couples alex and i aspire to be like one day.

    it’s often been said that left-handed people are more creative, artistic and colorful. it doesn’t take a scientist to use this generalization and apply it to the stereotypical over-the-top nature of how a gay person is pictured in society.

    and the older brother thing? puh-lease. i won’t even go into how overly-contrived this is.

    what are your thoughts? do you think this research could be on to something, or is just totally bogus?

  • standstill.

    there are so many things running through my head.

    i’m being pulled thirty different directions and i don’t know which one to succumb to.

    i find myself frantic, but unable to move.

    i tell myself that things don’t bother me, but they do. more than they should.

    i shouldn’t care about what other people do, or how they are. good or bad, that is THEM, not me.

    i shouldn’t attribute myself for their stupidity/selfishness/bad sense (or on the flipside: sensibility/caring nature, etc.) — they are the way they are on their own.

    i shouldn’t expect change from the world, just because i am ready for it.

    i shouldn’t wait for things to get better with everything else before i get better myself. no one is waiting on me …

    i am the only one that should matter. i am the only one who can make this easier.

    case in point: i’ve been making this worse on me, just by being concerned about how everyone else is around me. i can’t do that anymore.

    these are things that i’ve KNOWN for years, but could not (and who am i kidding, probably still can’t) live by.

    i need to rise above.

    if i want change, i need to make it happen.

    i want to move forward.

    i want out of this frenetic standstill.

    here i go, wish me luck.

  • the mario mentality.

    i made a very important comparison today. one that ties my childhood
    with my present, in an attempt to change my attitude on the future.

    *drum roll, please …*

    i realized that life is full of levels to beat, just like in super
    mario world (and super mario bros, super smash bros, mario kart, mario
    teaches typing … er, you get the idea. mr. popular is in over 200
    video games!).

    we’re all leveling up through life, just like mario.

    the start of the game is so simple … one minute, you’re walking
    around eating apples with your favorite buddy (ahh, yoshi) and the
    next thing you know, the shit hits the flagpole:

    the princess is kidnapped.

    exclamation points need to be found.

    getting taller is a possibility, only if you eat weird-looking mushrooms.

    survival depends on flying with a feather or riding an animal one-fifth your weight.

    spiky animals will rain from the sky.

    most of all, you have to fit your pizza-loving ass down a skinny pipe.

    … and that’s all before you meet your first of bowser’s annoying minions.


    see, life just keeps getting harder with each advancement. but i guess
    it’s also super fulfilling to make it to the next step (almost)
    unscathed.



    i mean, if a plumber can make it through, i can too, right?


    (shit, i can’t find my cheat codes!)

     
    *ps: some of these pictures were too good NOT to post!!

    pps: i can has rekommendz?

  • abc song list

    i’m giving in to the day’s trend. couldquitepossiblybeme has posted a fun little game that she took from lmoisan, who in turn borrowed it from another blog. (see how the spiderweb is beginning to weave?!)

    anyway, take your MP3 player and find a song that begins with each letter of the alphabet. let me know if you continue the trend … it’ll be neat to see what everyone listens to!

    a – addicted by kelly clarkson
    b – the bad touch by bloodhound gang
    c – california by semisonic
    d – dickhead by kate nash
    e – everything by lifehouse
    f – five sisters by dane cook
    g – good riddance by green day
    h -have you met miss jones by robbie williams
    i – i can i will i do by barenaked ladies
    j – josephine by the wallflowers
    k – a kiss to send us off by incubus
    l – la vie boheme by rent
    m -madeline and nie by mike doughty
    n – not big by lily allen
    o – the office by the scrantones
    p – the phantom of the opera by andrew lloyd webber
    q – quicksand by incubus
    r – runaway by pink
    s – satellite by anna nalick
    t – tempus vernum by enya
    u – up! by shania twain
    v – vogue by madonna
    w – waiting on the world to change by john mayer
    x – XO by fall out boy
    y – yellow submarine by the beatles
    z – zoe jane by staind

  • today’s inspiration.

    The science of war leads one to dictatorship, pure and simple.

    The
    science of non-violence alone can lead one to pure democracy

    Power
    based on love is thousand times more effective and permanent than power
    derived from fear of punishment…

    It is a blasphemy to say
    non-violence can be practiced only by individuals and never by nations
    which are composed of individuals…

    The nearest approach to purest
    anarchy would be a democracy based on non-violence

    A society
    organized and run on the basis of complete non-violence would be the
    purest anarchy.”

    —Ghandi

  • protected post up.

    hit me up if you want on the list.

  • alive.

    still sick, but made it to work today.

    blog more later.

  • i always get what i want.

    i TOTALLY called the democratic race.

    here’s why i heart obama, in case y’all missed my post.

    and again, here’s my caucusing experience, in two parts. (1) (2)

    obama ’08!!!

  • we are TV whores.

    it’s crazy to think, but one of the biggest things alex and i have in common is our love for entertainment. movies, television shows, video games … you name it, we L-O-V-E it.

    and while we have our common genre interests, it’s cool to think we cover the spectrum with our tastes (me: ROMCOM, him: horror, for example).

    for the past year or so (especially since the writer’s strike), we have been collecting seasons of television on DVD.

    it began innocently enough with south park. once we had the entire set (that has been released thus far … yes, TEN seasons) on our shelf, we were hooked.

    now, our vast collection overtakes multiple shelves on our bookcase … and we’re just getting started.

    (i have serious completion issues about sets. lol, i have to complete the series)

    thanks to movie trading company, we’ve been able to trade-in our old movies and cds for our prized seasons. (we bring in things we don’t even want anymore, and get three or four seasons out of the trip … and we only have to make up a couple dollar’s difference!) plus, places like target and best buy have overstock sales, helping us add to our hoard at unbelievably low prices. 

    lately, i’ve been on a friends and west wing binge. oh. my. gawd.

    and now, a list of our treasures:

    arrested development (1-3)
    dexter (1)
    family guy (1-4)
    friends (1-6)
    futurama (all)
    grey’s anatomy (1-2)
    heroes (1)
    how i met your mother (1-2)
    lost (all)
    mr. bean (all)
    october road (1)
    the office (american: 1, 3; british: all)
    simpsons (1-8)
    south park (all)
    supernatural (1)
    tudors (1)
    viva la bam (all)
    weeds (1-2)
    west wing (3-5; stevie owns 1-2 and 6-7 … between us, it’s all of them)
    newlyweds (all. i know, i know …)

    yeah, that oughta get us through the long summer …

    btw, it may not LOOK like a lot, but it’s pretty substantial, considering.)

  • buh-bye, baby.

    hillary is conceding!!

    word.

    update: there are conflicting reports:

    Terry McAuliffe, Clinton’s campaign chairman, told CNN that AP is “100% reporting incorrectly.”

    “I don’t know who the officials are, but anyone can be an official in
    this world. I can unequivocally say as chairman of this campaign that
    until someone has the numbers this nomination fight continues on,” he
    said.
    “The race goes on,” he added.